Q: What are your thoughts on healing, basic health, marijuana and other recreational substances?

A: I have a VERY strict low tolerance when it comes to regular recreational substance use. Before you book a session/ pay for a service it would be wise to get your health and basic well being in check FIRST before you book a healing or medical medium session. I do not want you to waste your money, book a session and for me to tell you REALLY basic health guidance. E.g- stop drinking a glass of red wine before bed. E.g You need to stop with the takeaways as they are making you tired and lazy. Are you smoking cigs? The thing is, you have to WANT to feel good. For many of us we are quite frankly addicted to feeling bad/ negative.

Maybe you DON’T need a healing- maybe you just need a kick up the arse health wise! BEE honest with yourself! Before you go paying for a session- get a little more REAL! Are you exercising 4 times a week? Are you taking a lot of supplements but your diets horrendous? Please watch my video on “ New Age Spirituality” and By Passing about getting the basics right FIRST here . If your exercising religiously and your considerably healthy and you feel icky- that’s when you should go and visit a healer.

Did you know high meat eaters have a negative mind? Clients have reported back to me as they lessened their meat and dairy intake that their minds became a lot more stable and “less divisive” . There was a reason the Buddhists were vegetarian! I also had someone come to me saying she had nightmares when she went from being vegan to eating meat- the nightmares stopped when she stopped eating meat.

If regular use of recreational substances are apart of your “well being” routine- there is something horrendously off there. We should not be using substances to cope with anxiety, low confidence and low energy- it is extreme that these substances have been “normalised” in coping with life.

In particular- I am appalled at what I would call “ spiritual circles” and the heavy usage of ayahuasca and psychedelics to “reach” transcendent states. This is called by-passing the real world reality. When people jump on these band wagons with regular usage they become apart of an odd fantasy land and their “spirituality” becomes incredibly disconnected from the earthly realm- it is actually quite worrisome. Please watch my video here on why we should be careful with these things and what happens.

I also worry for people who have had incredible trauma happen and have found a healer or guide who opened them up to nefarious beings and has no idea how to clear trauma. I watched something online where a “healer” told these people to "take a substance” and someone was filming the whole thing without the “healer” knowing and I saw clear as day, a full on possession take place. Hopefully, these people learnt better boundaries and better discernment from the experience. It is usually very vulnerable people who come from abused homes who go looking for help in all the wrong places. You can have realms or portals opened into darker energies and if you do not understand the root cause of your trauma you could enter into a living HELL ON EARTH from a bad trip or a “healer”. In my books- I have NO room for any substance in my healing practise - unless of course it is those great mushrooms ( the lions mane and the reishi that can be found at your local chemist ) - these are not psychedelic mushrooms. I have seen people who take far too many substances- blast off and their mind turns to mush and they lose connection with reality.

I love The Fae and The Nature Spirits- but I also love being realistic! Spirituality and a healer should be HELPING YOU to feel better in your body- if you are struggling with your body and feel horrible- please look at your basic well-being habits and if they are contributing to you feeling anxious/ depressed ( e.g daily marijuana usage- thats called an addiction) before booking a session.

If I work with you and you are a heavy user I would not want you to waste your money. I cannot work with your energy body if it is quite literally bunged up with density and god knows what from you needing a break from your life with a joint. Is the lifestyle you are living currently supportive and enjoyable? If not are you using a substance to try and cover up how your feeling?

Weed quite literally creates density and depressive clouds in your energy and aura- you are quite literally walking around in an energetic fog- did you know you become spiritually vulnerable when you are stoned and can invite in negative spirits to “stay” in your aura? They then affect your quality of life. ESPECIALLY if you go to bed stoned- god knows whats happening to your aura and lack of awareness while you sleep!

Try drinking marshmellow root tea or passionflower tea for anxiety first! Chamomile is great for sleep as well as Lemon Myrtle ( make sure their organic- herbs are supportive and helpful of you).

Yes- I know marijuana is a plant, but it is the way its used and what for . I know there are special benefits to some people when its’ done right- however for me and my services- I chose not to align with it.

I would also look at WHERE the usage began- e.g what age did you begin? Are you anxious? Did you think you may be energetically sensitive ( men) and you were trying to cope with that sensitivity? With one client in particular- he was smoking alot and after working with me long term- it turned out actually- he was incredibly psychic AND clairvoyant, naturally. The weed usage was blocking out his intuition that was trying to help him! On a subconscious level he was trying to cope with that sensitivity- and after working with me and cleaning up his diet and habits ALOT of psychic ability opened up that gave him a lot more confidence in himself and in his business. His success doubled! And so did his confidence and happiness!

There are ways of being an in-tune, sensitive masculine man and you need’nt shut down your gentleness. This is where herbal teas can really help you!