Collective Energy Update: Father Wounds
Collective Energy Update from my dreams: Father Wounds
Hi There!
Things are a little choppy for us!
Here is a helpful report on what is going on in our COLLECTIVE ENERGY right now!
But first, what does “ Collective Energy” actually mean?
When I read for the collective energy- I am usually picking up on dreams, energetic themes and feelings that we are moving through, as a collective.
It is important to educate yourself on collective energy updates so you can be more discerning and more aware of what's taking place.
Sometimes, what we are feeling could be to do with cosmic energies and changes that are going on COLLECTIVELY and could be affecting you, without you realizing.
What happens is that there is a big “ mainstream” group operating out of a specific frequency and energy. We could call this the MAIN frequency of The Earthly Realm.
There is a lot of upheaval and change taking place in this collective energy .
Then there are “smaller” groupings or frequencies of people who are “above” the mainstream frequency and incarnated holding a “higher” energy.
This usually just means, your a little more spiritually mature and are resonating or vibrating at a “higher” energy than what the collective consciousness is moving through.
However, because we are all here together- guess what! We could be picking up and feeling the BIGGER more HEAVIER frequency of the collective consciousness that is truly not an accurate representation of where YOUR going.
This is where discernment and energetic boundaries come into play.
Did you know that the thoughts you are having that are negative and heavy could just be the collective consciousness and what they are moving through ?
You, as a bi-product could be “absorbing” unwittingly what the group is moving through.
When evolution and change is taking place in the group- it's because our Cosmos is trying to get us to “vibrate higher” as we move through The Cosmos to get to more harmony - and this affects THE GROUP!
This includes bringing up themes like racism and war.
Themes and flair ups are common - as heaviness is being “pushed” out of people who are trying to cling onto things that, quite frankly just are not working anymore. This is most likely because the frequency has stopped working or has become “defunct” and you are sitting there thinking why the heck did I marry that person for? The frequency has changed and your just not vibing with it any longer.
I have been having ALOT of dreams about what is going on- and its intense.
You may resonate with some of this- and you may resonate with all of it or you may simply read it and think “click” ok, that makes so much sense and you have a mild epiphany where you all of a sudden understand what you had been experiencing.
Main Theme:
CLEARING COLLECTIVE FATHER WOUNDS.
Through my dreams Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung made an appearance.
Swiss psychiatrist Dr Carl Jung in his library.
These two talk about father wounds and how we may “project” the wounding we got from an immature father or abusive father onto our partners.
For example- did you grow up as a small boy with an alcoholic father who was emotionally unstable and projected all his immature emotional capacities onto you, and you were left to cope with it?
As an adult, do you now cope with alcoholic issues and the inability to express your emotions- thus you “absorbed” your fathers MASCULINE ENERGY and seem to be, unwittingly repeating his masculine tendencies. You have trouble “breaking out” of this cycle that is wrecking your life- you also grew up with a mother who didn't have the self empowerment to protect or take care of herself and as an adult man you see women “that need to be saved” and they leave no time for you and your wants and needs- because your mother did not have space for you as a child- shes needed YOU to take care of her.
As a result from your parenting, in particular your father- you have NO IDEA how to take CARE OF YOUR NEEDS!
The father wound or your fathers masculine energy -will be “vibrating” in your energy body- and you may not be able to “break out” from your fathers dominating grip as a man or woman because you have not CLEARED AND PROCESSED the father wound or your father’s hurts and pains that he pushed on to you.
When we do not face our childhood and heal The Inner Child and everything that went on in it, it will create almost these “disorders” in us that we the subconsciously project onto our partners or lovers - wanting our partners or lovers to “make up” for what our father or mother could not give us.
For example- did you grow up as a little girl in a broken home and had a sexually abusive father? You may struggle now with trusting healthy masculine men, you may have blocked out the memories as a teen/ child and be carrying unprocessed feelings and emotions that may create heaviness and tiredness in your energy. You may have weight issues and not be able to “ choose” a healthy life path for yourself- on some level your daddy is still very much “in the driver's seat” of your life. You may feel anxious about expressing your femininity, dressing in a way that expresses who you are, you may feel downtrodden and resonate with “ the matrix” because you were oppressed and abused as a child.
If you have father issues as a woman, you may also resonate with extreme “feminism” that is very black and white- blaming men for all your issues, hurt and anger and turning into a bitter “masculine” woman when really- your father berated you your entire life and the only outlet you have for your teen emotions is to yell and blame a hidden “force” outside of you- like patriarchy. YOU become volatile, like your father.
You then struggle to find “masculine men” or the masculine energy you really crave, because all the masculine men back away from you- because you are blaming them for your entire life experience.
You could also swing to the polar opposite and be a withdrawn, anxious wall flower with high anxiety - you may “act out” to get attention from men, you may use social media in a way to get “daddy's attention”, wanting to be “hotter’” than other woman but really all your trying to do is get the attention you wanted from an absent father.
This is where we have in collective consciousness- adults who don't quite “grow up”. In order to “grow up” spiritually , we need to face our mother and father wounds to evolve into a higher expression of mature masculine and feminine expression.
Right now- The Cosmos is “initiating” us to face THE FATHER WOUND and our relationship with masculinity.
Father wounds can also manifest as girls growing up to pick husbands who subconsciously hold a very similar frequency to their fathers- if we don't heal and clear the wounding- we are not going to evolve into picking healthier men or seeing the value in healthy masculinity.
You may grow up and marry “ the love of your life” but what really was happening was that you had a vibration with our fathers frequency in your energy body- and you picked a man who “matched” that vibration. You end up in a controlling, manipulative marriage - your unhappy- your husband controls you financially - he uses cohesion and put-downs to get you to stay “docile” - and it takes you awhile to figure out why your not feeling happy and fulfilled, it was “great” to begin with.
This is where there is a BIG difference between a WOMAN and an adult who is still very much a GIRL. As a result of the father wound, women may grow up with the inability to “do anything for themselves” and want others constant validation for the smallest of decisions. You will then get women who feel the need to attack and pull down other confident females because they feel “triggered” about not being able to “ get out there”. Was it this female- or was it your Dad?
Right now- we are beginning to face that wounding.
OK for example -an older man- I have an issue with alcoholism- because my dad did - It’s annoying me- I seem to get “triggered”, fly of the handle, and can't quite figure out why I am acting this way- I don't want to- but I can't seem to figure out- I KNOW it’s not “me” but I can't seem to separate myself from this response.
If a man does not heal and clear his father wound- he is not going to be healthy in his own unique expression of masculine energy and may feel anxious, like he can’t get his finances sorted, he may have a really low quality of life, his father may have gone into competition with him over money and business- pushing down his own expression of masculinity.
You may feel you “can't go after” the things you want in life as a grown man or woman due to insecurity and fear that may be coming from your inner child and teen self.
As a woman- you may struggle with healthy expressions of feminine self empowerment, instead going to the extremes to “ get your voice heard” , you may struggle with balance in your life and go from one extreme to the next, your intuition may be very anxious and fear based- that will come from your inner child not being allowed to “explore” herself and her creativity.
SELF TRUST is massive for women and The Father Wound- you may have had a father who projected a lot of fear and divisiveness upon you - thus feeling anxious about TRUSTING your Inner Voice- allowing HIS VOICE to over power your inner feminine intuition.
You may feel “watered down” in your sexuality and feminine frequency due to your dad’s overpowering and over dominating energy in your life- even if he's no longer in your life his energy may still “play the king” in your life spiritually.
The Father Wound keeps us in a state of fear, anxiety, a low quality and a low vibrational life where we are fearful of “shining bright” and making good use of our incarnation. We may feel slighted easily, we may feel we “can’t do better” than our fathers, if you try and break out of his “grasp” as a woman he may get manipulative, defensive and try and bully you to make choices that suit him
With the father wound- there is also a lot of wounding around finances and confidence, no matter if you are a woman or a man.
A lot of fathers can get VERY triggered if a daughter or son does better then them- and on some level you may be watering yourself down in other areas of your life because you don't want the bullying father to appear.
We may also struggle with self acceptance and liking ourselves for who we are- we may not have a strong identity and know what our passions are, outside of the dysfunctional father.
Typically, with the father wound we have to stay small, as adults, to appease the father.
For women- you may enter into a marriage where you have to “stay small” and let your husband “take over” YOUR energy and your creativity.
The Father Wound feels scared, insecure of healthy femininity and masculinity, and must, AT ALL COSTS WIN!!!
The Father Wound can be pig-headed, insecure and dominating to a tee- and his energy then goes and tries to dominate your life, your finances, your own children, your marriages, your jobs, your quality of life!
The Father says HOW DARE YOU THINK YOU CAN DO BETTER THAN ME!! He dominates and controls the scared, frightened Inner Child to appease his deeply insecure ego.
I'm sorry to say- Cosmos says it is time for you to come face to face with this collective wounding and see where we are holding ourselves back.
Ok- so what can you expect?
We may have A LOT of emotions and feelings come up “ out of nowhere” or respond to things in an extreme manner and get “triggered” only for a memory to come up to be processed and cleared.
We may have dreams and memories come back from our childhood, we may run into men around us who “remind us” of our father so we can have our memory jogged and start making connections.
We may find we are hyper sensitive, overwhelmed and need to take some space and we need to process and feel into what is coming up.
For Example you may start wondering- but WHERE did my alcoholism come from?
You may get guided on a journey over the next year, connecting the dots to the extreme fashion of your father and how that manifested for YOU.
The emotions can be extreme right now, and the attachments we made in childhood quite simply need to be cleared .
Did you marry your wife because your dad said “it is a good match”? Guess what- right now the father wound is most likely making you come face to face with your choice- and how your dad overpowered YOU and what YOU wanted.
Anger, frustration, annoyance. We may also have A LOT of feelings- I don't want to do this anymore, I don't like this job or this marriage- this is most likely because you made choices that aren't in alignment with YOU or your masculinity and femininity but someone else's- was it your father’s wants and needs?
Where in your life did you let your father’s wish “ dictate’ how and what your life should be?
For women- are you constantly self righteous and feel the need to take down other women living out their lives in a healthy way? Do you feel this corresponds to how downtrodden your father made you and your mother feel?
Are you taking out your father wounding on innocent people around you?
Did your dad leave your mum in the lurch for another woman and as a result as a woman now, you have slights and pains towards men that block you from finding a partner? That is the father wound in action. You just can't seem to GET OVER how much of a “dick” your dad was- and so you take it out on maybe “un-masculine men” and you get entitled and feel its ok to treat other men badly, maybe a little “pissy” and generally- your moods are not very nice to be around.
Are you just annoyed at your dad still and not the men around you?
It's time to take a CLOSER LOOK now Cosmos says with your father and the wounding you are carrying that is BLOCKING YOU from manifesting more abundance, security, and competence in your life. With relationships too! What is it YOU like?
Did your dad routinely shut you down financially? Did he force you into a low wage so he felt better about himself?
Did you have no healthy masculinity around you as a child and teen and now as an adult you have no idea how to care for and express your masculinity in a healthy way?
Time to..SHOW UP FOR YOU AND YOUR OWN LIFE- NOT YOUR DAD’S! NOT OTHER PEOPLE!
Expect a lot of feelings and pain to express and surface for a while - it is pretty turbulent but it's also working to get YOU into a lighter vibration.
Anxiety- what is my life path? Why am I doing this? I want a better life! This all has to do with the father, and where his energy was “ keeping you down”.
Feeling like “ you can't do something” because you don't have the finances? Fatherwound.
What or rather WHO is standing in your way to manifesting what you want?
We may feel tired, like we are needing more space, like we need to take care of ourselves and put our own needs and wants first ( father wound also demands that others wants and needs come first- did your dad make himself the center of your life? Was his wants and needs more important than yours?).
We may also have themes come up on SELF RESPECT- where we were not self respecting ourselves in situations because our father never showed us respect. We may get highlighted to being too “allowing” and be pushed to hold boundaries or “teach someone a lesson”.
We may be pushed out of our comfort zone as we assert a boundary or walk away from something that has become too draining and time consuming- father energy- taking care of YOURSELF.
We may really get highlighted to draining situations and want to re-align ourselves to healthier things, we may feel overwhelmed at the burdens others are asking of us and no longer want to “play that role”.
We stop “caretaking” others, like we “care took” our fathers - even if we took on his burdens so he felt better, but at the expense of ourselves.
Self Care is a BIG focus right now and being more discerning with what's going on for others- and what's going on FOR YOU.
Big lessons on letting others figure out their own issues and focusing on our own internal process and what your own desires are, and what we are needing to be healthy, centered and aligned.
We take BIG steps back from jealous, angry individuals as the father within asks us to start taking better care of our health and well-being- The HealthyFather may start to “take back” his power within you from your own father as you have dreams and intuitions guiding you to release.
Alright!
We may also feel a lot more sensitive energetically and need help cleansing and clearing our energy- we may feel overwhelmed as we pick up on others energies as we are needing a lot of time and space to process our own.
We may also see HARSHER penalties come into play and a ramping up of cause and effect. We may not feel sympathy in the way we used to- instead it is- well- that person made a choice and now they are experiencing the cause and effect of that- e.g stealing- means being “kicked out” of the hostel you were staying in.
People pushing the boundaries? You're most likely not going to be so lenient now! Self respect also comes in the form of WALKING AWAY and not wasting your energy on unnecessary conflict and energies!
We may “ take the high road” with less than respectful individuals.
We may need to take some steps back and distance ourselves from people who are being unsupportive.
We may need to take a break from our husbands, wives or partners , university or go on a solo vacay for a few nights while we process and feel into what's coming up for us.
Meditation right now can be very helpful to cleanse and purify your energy and make it a lot easier- I would recommend my FREE guided meditation over on my shop here.
Or you can get your favourite crystal and meditate for 10 min morning and night, focusing on your breathing- this can help bring you back to YOU and your process- not the process of others around you.
Switching off from social media and technology in the evenings- reading a book instead to bring balance back in.
Healthy diet, boundaries.
I hope that helps you!
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