Oracle: XOXO Gossip Girl- Overcoming Opposition

From My Dreams

Oracle: 

Xoxo Gossip Girl: Overcoming The Opposition 

From my dreams .

Recently, I dreamt of the tv show Gossip Girls. So I  began to watch the entire season  of Gossip Girl Season 1. 

In today's modern day world, there seems to be groups of women who conglomerate together in a certain frequency for the purpose of trying to derail other women. From my own  experience so far- it is a very certain frequency of feminine energy that “ needs to be at the top”. Gossip Girl! 

In Gossip Girls there is the main “villain” by the name of B or Blair Waldorf.

Let's look at the frequency of unhealthy “ Queen Bee’ energy and how that manifests in women today. 

Blair is an archetypal energy of “unhealthy” queen bee energy, who still very much “survives” by being AT THE TOP of her peers, no matter the cost to those around her.

Blair is haughty, rude, conniving, a little sinister, manipulative and premeditated “plans” to get a certain outcome. 

She believes she knows everything and everyone- she prides herself on being “ at the top”, creates hierarchy and division wherever she goes. 

Her false sense of confidence comes from external validation- not her true “ inner confidence”. 

She needs to bring down other females, and when the cause and effect comes back  to  her of her own making- she plays the innocent, upset, hurt victim. Oh no! Blair’s actions actually have some sort of effect!

With women like Blair, they create these energetic vortexes of gossip, lies, manipulation and deceit. 

A lot of the time, women like this are not in control of their own energy and frequency- rather they are trying to control and manipulate the outcome of others lives. If  women like Blair “ don’t like”  what is transpiring naturally into others lives with positive intention- they will try their hardest to interfere and “stop” great things from “manifesting”.

It is important  to remember that the Blair’s of the world- they have INTENTION to “make manifest” that frequency in the first place- if someone has an intention- then they are using their “free will” in action. 

Blair REFUSES to take accountability and responsibility for how things are playing out- instead attributing to people “ not doing what she wants”. She is used to “getting her way” by forcing, playing “dumb” , covering up her actual intention and creating lie upon lie to “ get out” of what she is CONSCIOUSLY creating.

For women like Blair, life is one never ending drama , and these women NEED to project onto others in order for their stories and projections to “live” or rather  “manifest”.

A lot of the time, women like Blair will make up entire story lines or plots about others lives based on one social media post, most likely blatantly ,making up stories about other women they feel triggered by  in order to feed the deception within them. 

A lot of the times- the women they target they do not personally know. The Blairs of the world may not have ever met you- but you may get  an email or  instagram message “claiming” things about your life or “ your boyfriend is toxic”or “ I don’t think you should go ahead with that idea in your business” while they take your idea for themselves,  when really,  they are jealous of your life. 

The Blairs of The Instagram World in particular feed into a fantasy land of delusion. As long as the instagram feed looks good and there is a “posse” to feed the validation- The Blair’s of Instagram survive. 

They are addicted to their phones- the need to post 24/7 online about ONLY GOOD amazing things. They scroll- usually- it is their only “hobby”.

A lot of the time these women have little to no groundedness- and will fib their way through life. 

For example “ I sold a piece of art overseas to a top bidder” on the instagram feed, when in reality it was your mum’s friend who purchased a piece of your art and she lives in the next town.

It could be “I bought a house bus and I'm manifesting” all over instagram when in reality this woman is sitting on the benefit , taking advantage of her baby daddy and can't make appointments with her own kid- it turns out- she was using the benefit and child payment to “manifest” this “abundance” while she did not want a job.

It is very interesting- because the Blairs of  the world are missing one piece of commonsense. In order to “manifest” the life you want- guess what. You actually have to put quite a bit of effort in and sustain your energy and focus to “ make things happen”. In the real world- things do not just “ fall on your lap”.

I'm sure, we have all had a Blair in our life- for some reason or another this woman  gets triggered by your pretty dress you got at the op shop for $10 but thinks you bought it from an upmarket shop. She makes up a blatant lie about your life situation then decides  your “out to get her” with that dress- and so in order for her to feel better about herself she needs to “ go on the defence” and take you down. Over a dress. 

Usually, The Blair’s need a group or posse of women around them, usually 2-3 who validate their delusions. Like a pack of sheep- these women gossip and spread a low vibration around you.

Then before you know it , without this person ever talking to you- apparently your living in a different township, and this woman thinks she knows everything about your life.

XOXO Gossip Girl- This Blair got you, and she got you well. 

Before you know it- a friend you haven't talked to in a long time reaches out  via social media and asks you-  are you still with x,y,z? 

And you realize that Blair has spread her stories so far and wide that there is apparently a completely different reality happening for you- and it's not a very good one.

You may be sitting there working away, raising your kids, your business, working your job ,cooking , slightly unaware that apparently your life, your relationships are a mess. …according to Blair and her loyal posse. 

Lets say- your on your way to manifesting better things in your life as a woman. You have goals, desires, and your saving with the money  or  budget you currently have.You are working with what you've got.  You feel good, you are maybe not where you want to be but you're following your intuition and your trusting of it.

When you decide as a woman that you're going to break out of a way of life and dream up something better- A Blair is going to make an appearance in your life. You could have multiple Blairs come at you at once- and I'm going to tell you- this is a GREAT sign.

Middle- Queen Blair and her posse- parroting everything back to validate her perspective.

If you are a woman and you're making your way into your dreams and goals one step at a time and a Blair appears- this is your sign that you are on the right path.

There is a very big difference in frequency here between the two feminine frequencies.

It usually means energetically that your manifesting is working , and you are generating and working with a higher frequency then the Blairs of the world.

It is only natural that the Blair’s are going to get triggered.

Because do you know why? Usually the Blair’s of the world lack the confidence or life direction  to channel their energy into meaningful and fulfilling things. They lie about it, instead.

Our lovely Blair’s- keep in mind that Blair is a frequency- and it could be a woman who does not have a lot, or she might,  but doesn't really want to do anything about her own unhappiness- instead she will look at other women and make them the issue when really it's her not taking accountability and direction for the quality of her own life. Blair is missing something vital- The Divine Feminine energy. 

Did you know that some women incarnate with a “higher” vibration in connection to the feminine energy? And did you know your intention creates that “vibe”?

But also- what happens is that we incarnate and we get “lumped” into Collective Consciousness- when the feminine is a perpetual victim,  or she cannot take responsibility for what SHE'S putting out- instead she forces her frequency and lack of responsibility onto her daughter, women she doesn't know , charges into others business and life, has “home wrecker energy”  and quite frankly, can’t keep her sticky beak OUT! Intrusive, meddling and sometimes a little annoying. She wants your attention and she needs you to FEED and validate her plots!

The Blairs of The Earth are in this one sided competition with… their own selves 

The Blairs have to win at ALL COSTS- they see women in  a natural “higher” frequency as a THREAT to their standing. But it's usually very short sighted as they may APPEAR to have “alot” but in reality they are probably fibbing.

Their entire reality exists around “who do I have more then” and “ who do I need to take down a notch so I feel more secure”. 

Blair- The Queen B that nobody really likes or enjoys, who steals, cheats and lies , needs to break up marriages and relationships that are secure- cannot stand to see others happy and content- The Queen B is jealous and divisive and will inject her negativity into your life, your business and very subtly  try and take you down. 

Based on my own research and dreams- it is VERY unwise to let this Queen B in your life. If you sniff a rat, if you feel another female is probing ,if you are manifesting and building your life one step at a time- A Blair will make an appearance, most likely through more than just one female. 

Blair’s NEED a crown, they need validation, they need to be “ the only one” at the top. It’s funny because a lot of the time these women never quite realise that their energy should be used to direct their own lives and then just MAYBE their lives or conditions/ circumstances might shift, but because Blair is addicted to quick fixes and quick outcomes along with external validation- nothing really “sticks” around long enough to fulfill her. 

They're missing one large piece of the puzzle- you need to put  the sustained, long term  effort into fruitful things. Not into gossip, slander, probing, being nosy- all the things that are just a waste… and rather unuseful!

The healthy Queens Bee’s, the women who are out here in the real world- we are too busy focusing on making things happen and following through with our guidance.

We're reading our romance books in the evenings instead of sitting on the phone.

We are raising our children, making the lunches, navigating the challenges and thriving,  running the business, flirting with our husbands or boyfriends, and if we are single we sort of love it and are content, either way. 

We're making the best of things as they are while we manifest better things.

For Blair, everything is “for looks”, its surface, it's empty and a lot of the time there's no personal frequency in anything that they do.

You're sort of boring. Because a lot of the time- you copy  other ladies.  You don't take inspiration- you just rip off the honey ideas  of someone else! 

In other news, is a certain pop star  our actual Queen B ? Or is she just another vapid pop star doing everything she's told?  To me here, Oracle-  Popstar B isn't that creative…… but her manager and everyone she pays is. I don’t get it- do you? 

Are we finally going to “see through” this popstar B and see her for what she is? Incredibly unimaginative?

For the healthy ladies of the Earth, those who embody healthy Queen B creative energy- we are more content, more fulfilled, we have direction, purpose and we thrive in the frequency of healthy feminine energy.

We take care of ourselves and our houses, we aren't here to compete and we buzz around other women who are on the same “vibe”.

For the Healthy Queen Bee’s of the Earthly Realm- we don't need a “crown” - all we need, a lot of the time, is a garden , or maybe a painting studio. We want to fulfill ourselves and we want to follow our creative buzz! We are unique, one of a kind- and a lot of the times- we are maybe a little too nice.

Words of Wisdom for The Healthy Queens Bees buzzing in their own realm  - You need to be a little more discerning with your time and energy sometimes. We need to get better boundaries, and really FEEL when someone needs to be kicked out of the hive. When our  “buzzer” or intuition starts to alert you to an intruding frequency in your honey filled life you are creating , much like how the bee’s attack a wasp when it tries to get into the hive and ruin all the hard work- you too need to get a little more feisty when a vindictive False  Queen B Wanna-BEE tries to “take your spot” in your own life.

That's right- the Blairs of the world want what YOU HAVE - even if it took you years to manifest.

Poise, Discernment and self respect are paramount- and sometimes- so too is a little bee sting. You come any further- you'll get stung and and it may just hurt your ego a little- just like removing a pest- you may need to use a little bug spray.

But I caution you ladies- One sting may not be enough to shut this vindictive Wasp down. She wants your honey and she is vibrating at a frequency that sometimes, just won't quit.

Hold your ground, get better energetic boundaries and use Blair as a test of your intuition - having opposition from a group of wasps is a very good sign that you are protected in your manifestations of sweet sweet honey. Don’t be afraid to kick a jealous Wanna-BEE out of your hive if you think she will ruin the nice, clean feminine frequency you are creating with!

On the rite of passage to becoming a woman and stepping into spiritual maturity you needn't BEE such a pushover. The “block” button exists for a reason, ladies. But depending on the determination of the False Queen B - the block button may not BEE enough!

Get your Discernment on, use it as a test to hon your foresight and intuitive ability and DON'T back down when a few of these wasps come buzzing around your hive, pretending to be “friends”. 

“From another sister to another sister” Yeah yeah yeah ok-  I dreamt of you a few nights ago and felt your frequency buzzing around my aura.. and it wasn't ” sweet”, in fact, it was a little nasty.  

Time to step back from that frenemy for a while, create some distance and hopefully she will find her direction again… away from you.

XOXO Gossip Girl- in the end, I do know to all my ladies, that wasps do not have honey in their hives- they need to steal from the other ladies so they can “BEE AT THE TOP”. 

A True Queen Bee doesn't need to be at the top- what matters most is how she's feeling, how her creative endeavours are going , surrounding herself with women who are also doing interesting things and  she LETS GO or distances herself from “friends” who are getting a little triggered as she makes her moves on her way to cultivating a healthy vibe and healthy life with all the things she enjoys and that bring sweetness to her life.

The Honey Bee energy- she takes time to manifest- it could bee 3 years before she sees ANYTHING start to shift- but she perservers - even when things feel heavy, draining and like  “what the hell is going on and why am I here”.

She sits patiently and starts with what she has, and she “makes it happen” by following her guidance.

She learns:

•Trust

•Discernment

•Patience 

•the meaning of “alignment”

•Receiving

•Allowing

•When to put something out there

•When to pull back her energy

•When to put something into action

•When to rest, holiday and play

•Boundaries

•Self Respect

•Self Preservation

but most importantly… when it’s time to leave.

The biggest difference between The False Queen B and the actual Queen Bee is that she's not afraid of putting in effort. 

If another woman is putting in all HER effort into “manifesting” toxicity for you- know this- you're on your way to having a lot of honey. It's a test-  you need to learn to cut off the wasp and get stronger boundaries to “protect” your honey and life force from outside intruders.

Who's real..and who's not.

BEE careful with whom you align with…….  for the Frequency you choose to work with, play with, invite in…. can help support your hive into more abundance with true friendship… or she can come in and pull apart ( well, try to) everything you have cultivated. 

There is a big difference in THOUGHTS and INTENTION between these two energies- be careful you don't get “ hijacked” by someone else's negativity around you!

These False Queen B’s have NO boundaries and have no qualms about taking over your life path… copying your entire frequency and creative endeavors and taking it all for themselves. They don't care, and they may feel guilty or sorry for all of 5 minutes before they find an easier target to try and take down.

Gossip Girl: Queen B Blair.

In my opinion- don't make it easy for the wasp to take you down. She may come at you time and time again  through many different women- but ultimately it is ALWAYS The Divine Feminine who triumphs. 

Don't bee afraid of a little gossip, a little negativity, a little group think- all you need to do is grow your hive boundaries  so you may thrive here in The Earthly Realm with all your natural feminine abundance.

NO SHARING!

We DO NOT share our honey with ladies who cannot be respectful. In fact, we put locks on our things. If we feel someone is getting a little vindictive or a little too close for comfort.. We heed the warning signs and we buy a lock or two for our  belongings, we don't sit like a duck, waiting for something to be stolen! We are PROACTIVE! 

Wasps steal- and they don't care about you.

Read the energy, read the frequency and  don't let The False Queen Bee derail you- she can't tolerate you and she can't have you having all that divine alignment , because while your sitting there reading your book in the evenings, she's sitting there on her phone aiming her negativity and jealousy at you.

Over time- you will find that The False Queen B energy will leave you alone…. because you have passed through the initiatory pathway. 

Find the humor in it Honey Bee’s , because The Gossip Queen hardly ever comes out on top- ( she may feel like she's “won” for all of 5 minutes before her insecurities kick in again and she comes back for round 2..or 3..or 4) sometimes, you just gotta put that annoying gossip in her place. 

All those trials, and all those tribulations will BEE worth it in the end, and you'll see it all fall into place…

Eventually- The False Queen B will realize she can’t compete with you, because you're not trying to compete- you're just BEE-ing YOU! She may walk away defeated, but I   guarantee you she will  try feebly a few more times after that , a little more lackluster to try and assert herself but , out of embarrassment- because you “ caught her”- her cause and effect comes crashing back down around her. 

And soon you realize- you needn’t lift a finger. 

XOXO- Cosmos says- BEE careful with what you're cultivating ladies…. Is it pleasure, sweetness and one-of a kind- honey with your own unique flavour? Or are you cultivating toxicity and negativity? Bee careful with what you ALIGN WITH… you're the one creating it for yourself and others. 

The True Queen Bee’s get put to the test when it comes to VIBIN’ RITE THROUGH THE PASSAGE WAY! RITE OF PASSAGE! 

Compassion is important- in understanding that that lady may be struggling with her own issues- but that DOES NOT make it ok for her to use you to project all those issues on to- compassion, but with spiritual maturity. You needn’t “wear” another lady's frequency to make her feel better because your honey is a little sweeter than hers, in her eyes. 

Do you know what else is important, my Honey Bee’s? BEE-ing a little more SELECTIVE with whom you're willing to  engage with- Sweet, sweet discernment manifests that spiritual maturity in your hive! A little bit of self protection and a little bit of realistic thinking!

Including those mums at the school drop off and pick up ok. 

And  that's all the secrets I will ever tell! You know you love me!

XOXO GOSSIP GIRL

Just kidding!

Love,

Your Oracle, B x

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