Navigating Psychic Attack and Energy Vampires!
The Article I wish I had!
When I was experiencing a lot of psychic interference and psychic “attack” I went on to the internet to find some logical answers on how best to navigate it and how to “stop” it, I did not find anything remotely helpful and commonsense.
Therefore, I am writing the article I wish I had!
In particular , when it came to envy, jealousy and other women interfering in my life path and also my private life.
For me, a lot of the psychic attacks came from other females in a “lower” frequency then me, more so then men - but I still experienced some naughty energies from men, just not as regularly.
Over the past few years, I experienced ALOT of interference via gossip, slander, envy and more. I began talking to other clairvoyants, intuitive friends and people in my inner circle- we had all experienced some sort of horrendous interference from outside negativity that completely and utterly interfered and “derailed” on our quality of life and tried to “ break up” relationships or their life path- and interfere on children, business and create REALLY unnecessary division.
For men- it could be coming from another man in the office or working environment that “decides” he is going to “ bring you down” and create some somewhat irritating conflict and “noise” in your life- when your trying to excel.
Psychic Attack can be VERY overwhelming and it takes a lot to recognise the signs and that you are being “attacked” by someone else’s negativity, thoughts, emotions and “hidden” desires. ( Two Faced behaviour, anyone?)
What I’v found as a common denominator in all of this is that psychic attack works through people who have hidden motivations. It is the person who “is nice to your face” but secretly wishes that your marriage would break up so this person would feel better about their life circumstances.
It is the “friend” who invites you out for a beer only to try and derail you from making a big career move you have been thinking about.
It is the high school bully or the insecure wife of another man that ALREADY had ill wishes for YOU and wishes to “ do something to you” to “stop” you living a happy, just and prosperous life!
Goodness Gracious me.
Psychic Attack is when someone else’s negative energy or emotional strains are HARNESSED and somehow TRANSFERRED into YOUR aura- this persons energy and frequency gets LODGED into your arena-. All of a sudden you are feeling insecure, negative, angry, lost and anxious- I am going to be honest in that once you decipher what happened you may ask yourself- why was I feeling and being so irrational? Everything is fine!
The energy from the attack literally OVERCOMES your own thoughts, life direction, purpose, positivity and more and it feels like someone is trying to “derail” you from your plans. Like a big black cloud is over you and your thoughts/ energy.
Usually, a clear sign of psychic attack is when you were feeling FINE then ALL OF A SUDDEN your are quite literally drowning in thoughts and the negativity of someone else.
E.g- You want to move up to another town area and you tell a “friend” or you tell your partner who relies the information to his friend who tells his wife who does not enjoy her life who secretly envies you. ( Trust me- psychic attack can work through MULTIPLE people- gossip and group think) and all of a sudden this woman messages you and says “ I had a dream that you shouldn’t move up to that town- I’m trying to help you” and something feels incredibly OFF. Your energy is picking up something, yet you can’t quite decipher it. You start to doubt your own intuition and desires and all of a sudden you lose your clarity and positivity ….. by coming into contact with this person- even online the energy and intent has been transferred.
You KNOW this person is lying - yet you can’t seem to “shake” the energy or what has happened between the transaction .
What has happened is that person who contacted you had a DESIRE ( intent) based on their own frequency ( frequency is your thoughts, your beliefs, your energy, your habits- your focus- you goals and what your are “manifesting” - e.g someone can manifest poverty by willingly wanting attention- vampirism- more on that later) and they WANT you to feel a certain way and DO NOT want you to move up to the township that’s calling you.
That night, after this woman contacting you, you don’t sleep well, you feel very negative and drained, your dreams are odd, your thoughts and emotions become unstable and you lose “traction” and your “can do” attitude.
She didn’t necessarily say anything negative - it was a nice message - or so it seemed with the nice smiley face emoji…..
For the next few days you feel tired, negative and you feel like “ nothing will get better” and it’s hard to “snap yourself out of it”.
This can also happen on land areas and in town ships e.g small town frequency where the base level frequency is one of lack, survival and negativity and if you live in a small town and your wanting better things- it can feel like you are BATTLING against people who are quite limited in their views on life who just DON’T and WILL NOT support you! Please- don’t listen to these people if you are young. For example- it is the trying and draining single mother who cries wolf about her husband leaving her 30 years ago but she actually cheated on him several times and lies often for sympathy- those kinds of people- and they can’t “ move on” from it and it becomes their entire identity in the small town complex- you will find the right people to support you and have some faith ok.
People like this will “attack” anyone who threatens their “identity” because on some level- they are VERY unhappy but are not willing to do anything about it- so if someone else comes along with a different set of beliefs- a different mentality and a more uplifting way of life- it “threatens” this persons identity and sense of self because you are HIGHLIGHTING there’s more to life and this person decides that “ they don’t like you” and so this is how psychic attack can happen.
Usually- when this happens- there is a difference in frequency or energy and it is usually the person holding more “light and positivity” that will get incredibly effected by “lower” energies and it FEELS like an attack. It is most likely you would NEVER think to treat someone how this person just treated you and you cannot for the life of you understand WHY this person decided to do that.
It can be REALLY hard navigating these types of people- and they can really “derail” where you are trying to go in life.
Because of how clean and clear my own energies are and my high psychic ability - I have picked up and dreamt of ALOT of things as to WHY and HOW this happens- and how to navigate.
I was moving around a lot for a while in between things. While I was staying somewhere- a young woman got so “triggered” by me and it turned out it was my dressing gown that triggered her! My pistachio green dressing gown that was horrendously discounted on sale from the usual Bed Bath and Beyond- nothing fancy ( but a GREAT colour).
This young women “decided” I was a “not nice” person and I proceeded to watch her make me into a “b***h” - when really it was her own inner negativity and insecurity being projected onto me to “make me” into something “mean” so she could feel “better”. She left the house and stayed at her boyfriend’s , touting “she couldn’t live there” while I was there. All because of a dressing gown I suppose… a little odd but typical for a “psychic attack” in that it is usually the silliest of things that set someone off and then YOU have to deal with the connection or this persons energy, when your trying to navigate other important things in your life. A family, a business, getting in shape. It becomes “harder” to focus on positivity.
This is a very good example of a frequency difference- this energy got transferred onto me and I started having a lot of negative, insecure thoughts- as soon as I left the house area and made it into nature- my energy cleared and so did the “attack”.
There is also such a thing as “ Black Magicians” - this is energy that works in the lower astral realms- a lower frequency of energy- and negative energy can quite literally get HARNESSED by “outer” energies - but remember….. the person MUST have a resonance in THEIR energy for their energy to be USED e.g setting you up to try and get “information”! If you think a Black Magician is behind repeat psychic attack- get your Slippery Elm.
A psychic attack is when someone makes up a story line in their head about you not based on accurate reality. They usually know VERY LITTLE about you as a person, if you work online or you are out on the public sphere I think we all know about these ridiculous snarky comments on YouTube channels and you can FEEL the energy when you read it but you KNOW its idiotic but it still “gets to you”. This is called energy transference.
Regina George in the movie “Mean Girls”- Thats so fetch! When really is wasn’t fetch at all!
My point being is that a psychic attack is someone else’s negative or heavy energy getting harnessed and literally being CHUCKED into your aura- and then somehow that energy overcomes you and makes you “believe” that life is horrible and you’ll “ never make it out alive”.
“Psychic Attack makes the negativity feel BIGGER and HEAVIER then it actually is- and is used to “burden you”, distort you and confuse you , most likely from up-leveling”
Psychic Attack makes the negativity feel BIGGER and HEAVIER then it actually is- and is used to “burden you”, distort you and confuse you , most likely from up-leveling - but remember- that person ALREADY had the intention to “aim” it at you- and that’s when energy can get made BIGGER then it actually is because negativity gets HARNESSED psychically by lower realm energies- I will be talking more about this in the upcoming Live Q and A in response to Racism and group consciousness- link here to watch this Sunday ( November 3rd) and to watch the re-play.
Negative people DO NOT like to be reminded that life can be different!
It is also typical for psychic attack to happen if you have unprocessed wounding, child and teen trauma or you have come from a broken home. With a wounded inner child- you are WIDE OPEN to others energies and most likely lack discernment, boundaries and healthy self respect. It can FEEL like you are “drawing” negativity from others to you- but you are really just “responding” to others energies or mirroring them. Typical for highly sensitive empaths and sensitives- is that they will “mirror” someone else’s frequency back and that person does not like it.
A psychic attack can also happen when someone FOCUSES on you- e.g internet stalking , obsession, delusion, or someone DEEPLY admires you ( and maybe has a crush) but will not admit it, instead they choose to HATE YOU!
Then THEIR jealousy and envy gets aimed at you and into the aura it goes and all of a sudden you are feeling this person’s unconscious insecurities and you seem to be “living life” in this persons inner unprocessed world. It can be a little confronting- when someone is being “nice” to you- but the energy you are picking up is the opposite.
A lot of the time, it is people with “fake personas” that will generate negativity for other people- these are usually highly insecure individuals- their identity revolves around a certain story line of being down trodden- and when you “don’t play the game” for this person all of a sudden they have entered into your sphere of the world and trying to make your life a living hell through repeated psychic interference.
Why/ How Does it happen?
Sometimes we have these experiences because we need to learn discernment- take it in your stride and you will get better at navigating it
We are “ too kind” or “ too nice” and we are ALLOWING it in- this is the usual- you are a genuine, kind person but you are too allowing to all the wrong people- this is where energy draining and vampirism can happen
You are going through a process of elimination or “psychic clean up” in that it is time for you to “level up” and you need to shut down soul contracts so you can be “free” to move into a new arena
There is a past life contract in which you need to shut down- based on imbalance.
Free -will. It happens- people make choices over and over to align with a certain frequency. It is a nasty habit that some people thrive in- being nasty.
The land area or house you are inhibiting has a “back log” of negativity and on a subconscious level people are aligning with it. Like attracts like and you do not “fit” in the frequency
Entities- there is always a naughty spirit behind it - just like we have positive helpful spirits- we also have naughty, negative spirits that represent a lower nature or energy.
You have very low levels of self respect and need to learn self love and respect for your time and energy.
How to combat?
Nature- get down to the river, get out on a bike, go to the gym. Recognise and hone your intuition and train yourself to notice the difference in frequencies so you my better discern and understand what’s going on.
Wait for your spirit guidance to come through or your commonsense intuition- if you can’t “hear” it- get into nature or go for a walk and wait for your energy to calm down and come back to centre. If you have lost your centre and feel upset and overwhelmed- try your best to calm yourself down at what is being chucked at you and WAIT.
Try my free meditation that helps with auric boundaries and centering yourself here.
Healthy diet- clean social media- no social media before bed, get into reading books, positive habits and STICK TO THEM.
A routine and SUPPORTIVE healthy habits - get up at the same time everyday- go to bed at the same time everyday- try and re-route yourself to focus on meaningful things that you are working on. Find habits that support your unique energy and work for you- for me personally I love ballet as a positive, healthy habit and reading period drama books where men are called “sire” and own manors. Find habits that you enjoy so you may “steer away” from others auric messes and out-and-about negativity.
Ring a friend whom you trust and ask for a second opinion - I’v found spiritual guidance to come through friends when I’v been navigating.
Come back to YOU! Spend some time in your own energy doing things that make YOU feel good and re-align.
Two go-to herbal teas- passionflower and marshmallow root, always for grounding and banishing irrational anxiety
Slippery Elm ( 1 teaspoon in water) for psychic protection from slander, gossip and deceit.
Use your discernment when calling people out physically- is it worth it? Is this person a stable person? Depending on how intuitive that person is- they may “pick up” your on to them and back off. This is why distancing yourself is a great technique- you have just made this person realise your on to them. People can “feel” energies and the change in them.
Know that this person is most likely not very happy, fulfilled or positive- this is not your issue- you don’t need to get ENTANGLED with this persons energy- and its not your issue nor is it your fault- if they are trying to blame you for their circumstances or trying to make your responsible for their life experience- YOU ARE NOT responsible. This is a great example of a psychic attack and sometimes its just pure laziness . “I’m going to attack this person instead of exercising”. Most likely- it has VERY LITTLE to do with you personally- it just FEELS really personal!
It can also feel HORRIBLE because you yourself may be trying to sort things out in your life- then all of a sudden you are burdened with someone else’s energy and it’s making it 10 times harder for you to get anything done! Typical!! Typical Psychic Attack!!
Take a step back- say out loud “back off and back up” - LIKE YOU MEAN IT! Push your aura out and get firmer with what you are “taking on” and whom you are engaging with.
I have found people who engage in negative behaviour or attack others routinely lack goals, what I call “ happy hobbies” , motivation, healthy habits and life direction- their energy is VERY idle and focused on others and not themselves- they are not using their energy efficiently and it shows- there is very little productivity or they are focusing their energies into unproductive things- thus generating very little in their own lives.
FYI If you are in a happy, supportive marriage or relationship - third party interference where someone WANTS to break you up is also a psychic attack. Another good example is you start dating a new person after a bad break up. This new partner in your life is adding REALLY good things to your quality of life. All of a sudden your ex girlfriend comes out of the wood work and “wants you back” and starts getting nasty to your new partner and just WON’T leave you alone- psychic attack. Do you see how it is usually VERY petty energy behind a psychic attack? Take the charge out of it. However demons are a whole different story.
“Im going to interfere on this persons pregnancy or motherhood because my own pregnancy was horrible and I am single, alone and miserable/ my husband is controlling and manipulative- you cannot be in a healthy romance because i am not” take a step back from the psychic attack and where the interference is coming from and look their lives. They most likely DID NOT make healthy choices or failed to make the best of what they had and instead want to TAKE from others… this leads me on to the next point in this post..
Vampirism: THE WORST!!!!! The WORST feeling!!!
Ok, Energy Vampirism .
Honestly- its annoying. This has probably been one of the most ANNOYING things to experience as a professional psychic. It can be REALLY draining and irritating because you may FEEL this person’s energy trying to “latch” onto you or your psychic sense may pick up attachments or chording that is happening (or trying to) with this person’s energy and all of a sudden someone else is FEEDING off your energy draining your times, resources, money and energy. As a bi-product you begin to feel negative, heavy and in “lack” with this person in your life.
Phew. Vampirism happens when someone ATTACHES or energetically CHORDS themselves to YOUR energy and frequency. This is usually a connection in that YOU do not BENEFIT in any way shape or form from engaging with this person. All that happening is that you end up feeling drained , exhausted, irritated and annoyed- and you can’t seem to get this person’s energy OUT or away from you. Are you all of a sudden picking up on this person’s thoughts, feelings, heaviness and feel like you are getting “sucked in” and somehow all you think about is them and their issues? Vampirism - something has chorded in and they want YOU to feed it all, much like a psychic attachment in the aura.
Vampirism is that thing where you can put up all the boundaries in the world but this persons energy keeps “trying it over and over”. A lot of the times- this person is not fully aware of WHERE their energy is going, but there is a CONSCIOUS effort to try and get sympathy, attention and dominate your time and your finances. To someone who is energetically aware it can feel HORRIBLE to be around. This person most likely lacks self awareness or does not really want to “ do anything”. As along as someone is “ helping them” or “supporting them” ( usually incredibly imbalanced and will “ feed” off others kindness) they don’t have to do anything for themselves. They can moan and complain in a very underhanded way to “ get what they want” , without lifting a finger!
A psychic attack is also “conscious” even if this person in “unconscious ” spiritually because they had the conscious thought to interfere on your life then FOLLOWED THROUGH with that choice. Please do not blame everything on entities and demons - if someone shows you the first time their energy and intent don’t “feel sorry” and allow it in. THEIR frequency and energy will end up wrecking havoc in YOUR life.
For this reason I love distancing myself. You disengage, re-route your focus and let that person deal with the cause and effect because it DOES come back to them, every single time, so let it! Disentangle yourself!
Vampirism is that “sticky feeling” you get when you are around someone and you “feel” their energy “going out” to you to get something- your attention, focus, sympathy or money. They want YOU to do “the heavy lifting” they do not want to do. When you are in a lower frequency like that, life DOES feel very heavy and hopeless- but also people do tend to FEED into it and want others around them to exonerate and affirm that energy for them.
Vampirism is when someone is FEEDING off your energy and its horrible!
People who “ feed” off others energy or USE other people usually:
Have high levels of co-dependance in that they will use others energy to generate things in their lives- they are not self reliant .
Have “sob stories” that happened yonks ago- but will peddle it over and over to “newbies” or people who “haven’t figured them out”
Are incredibly disingenuous.
Wanting others to “validate” their identity and low quality of life- there is high levels of self absorption in that everybody’ else’s life becomes about the persons issues. This person fails to see “ life outside” for others because “life is horrible”.
They will keep others around “just in case they need something”. Not from genuine care or enjoyable relationship
They will do things that make them “appear” like nice people to get further validation - when the intention was to get attention
They usually “use” others in relationship and have very little understanding of what healthy, mature enjoyable relationship is- then moan and complain about “ how bad men are” or “how bad women are” while using someone for money.
They use their partner or children - they are emotionally immature and want YOU to baby them and their life choices- over time it becomes draining and exhausting to BEE dealing with someone who quite literally does not want to solve basic life issues that everyone faces. E.g- I don’t have a lot of money . I cannot work out or go to a gym. I will sit and wallow, when they can easily begin power walking, using free exercise videos on YouTube or uphill hiking in their neighbourhood for free- they just don’t want to.
You don’t feel “happy and healthy” or “vibrant” when around them- you feel you cannot be your “ full self” because it upsets them and you feel your positivity being “drained” - there’s no sunshine in this persons world so you must stop shining also- e.g ever been around someone and your spiritual light goes out? Thats what it feels like! Its all dark and muddy around this person and you must be apart of this also
It’s actually incredibly unhealthy to be allowing of this for YOU and YOUR quality of life. Its like that one friend who you have been friends with FOR AGES and as YOU have grown, matured and evolved, this friend hasn’t and it’s beginning to drain you and pull you down as you try and aim for higher things and uplift your frequency with higher, more “in alignment” choices. Every time you hang out with this person you become vastly aware that this person won’t change and that the entire friendship is based around “getting high” , motional care-taking or using your identity to further their career. This person just sort of “dumps” their energy onto you, you sit there listening and taking it in, then you realise actually, the “friendship” is sort of horrible and not serving you any longer. It does not make you feel good and it has turned into a “dead weight” draining, time consuming connection. The friendship consists of this one sided dynamic that takes up ALOT of your free time that you could use more wisely. This person offers NOTHING to you.
Vampirism is very common . Sometimes, you just gotta let people learn their own lessons and stop endorsing or allowing it in your life. It is a good thing to learn these things because once we have some awareness and confidence in navigating unsupportive energies we are better able to “manifest” and “navigate’” better, higher levels of success and find people who are more ”on our level”.
If you want better things for yourself- you need to “seperate the wheat from the chaff” as apart of spiritual and psychic maturity and surround yourself with more inspirational, uplifting energies and people - this will greatly help YOU in uplifting yourself out of negativity !
Vampirism - distance yourself, set firmer boundaries, check for energetic chords or go visit your local psychic or healer so they can help you seperate off form unsupportive energies and frequencies that are keeping you “stuck” in lower energies.
At some point along the soul journey we must ALL learn healthy, spiritual self autonomy- some of us are already there- others are learning it!
Sometimes, we can become VERY despondent and lose hope and faith after experiencing a slew of negative individuals. Remember this is not an accurate representation of reality. By you saying no and choosing to work with YOUR energy and shutting down negativity, you are uplifting the earth into more hope and prosperity. Positivity is “higher” then lower frequencies- and sometimes it can be very hard navigating The Earthly Realm with ALOT of hopelessness and lack of faith. This I think is where vampirism comes in because it FEELS easier to sit back and “ do nothing” when really I think, it is a lot harder.
But please remember- that you needn’t “sacrifice” your life for someone who wants YOU to “do the work” for them- that is not healthy and no one incarnated to be a scapegoat for someone else’s free will/ past life choices. We ALL have something to overcome- and sometimes we really need that “challenge” to hone the spirit!
Let others “figure it out” and focus on where you are and where you want to go- let your goals and desires be a priority. Whether that be more art, beauty and creative prosperity ( take a few steps everyday in that direction in which you would like to “manifest” in YOUR life) or you would like to see more happiness, in that case- work on your OWN happiness first!
Don’t let YOUR energy be “sucked dry” and don’t let YOURSELF believe that earth isn’t changing into something more grander !
Don’t Let the suckers in! Literally.
You most likely have put in the time and effort to get to where you are- what is this person doing… hmmm…?!
A great example is Arwen in Lord of The Rings when she is fighting off the lower realm energies and she is on her horse with Frodo at the river- remember there are ALWAYS supportive energies to help you navigate! Shut it down. Don’t engage with it and call on a helping hand from up above if you need it.. but remember sometimes we need to hone a backbone and “ do it ourselves” . ;)
One night, whilst I was travelling in other realms I had a distinct dream- I was telling others to “call upon the light of God” for self protection - there is ALWAYS help available! Just ASK!
B xx
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